01 - Preheat oven to 350°F. Line a 12-cup muffin tin with paper liners.
02 - Whisk together flour, baking powder, and salt in a medium bowl.
03 - Beat butter and sugar in a large bowl until light and fluffy.
04 - Add eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition. Mix in vanilla extract.
05 - Add flour mixture to butter mixture in three parts, alternating with grape soda. Begin and end with dry ingredients. Mix until just combined.
06 - Stir in grape extract if using and a few drops of purple food coloring for desired color.
07 - Divide batter evenly among liners, filling each about 2/3 full.
08 - Bake for 16-18 minutes until a toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool in pan for 5 minutes, then transfer to wire rack to cool completely.
09 - Beat butter until creamy. Gradually add powdered sugar, mixing well.
10 - Add 2 tbsp grape soda, grape extract if using, and pinch of salt. Beat until light and fluffy. Add more grape soda 1 tsp at a time if needed for consistency.
11 - Mix in purple food coloring until desired shade is reached.
12 - Frost cooled cupcakes with grape buttercream. Decorate as desired.